out of the mouths of babes

"If you know how it feels then why don’t you do it differently?"  Ouch.  The truth hurts...especially when spoken by your own child.  She wanted time with me.  She doesn’t want to have to share.  I get it.  Boy do I get it!  Her younger sister screams louder and persists longer in demanding my attention...so she wins.  It’s not fair to her and I know that as well as any.  Being the oldest of five I totally understand what having to share feels like. Does anyone ever emerge from childhood feeling like they got enough love?  I knew my parents loved me...but knowing you are loved and feeling like you are filled up to overflowing are different things altogether.  I want to make it a priority to give both of my girls a balanced and rich experience of time with me.  I humbly ask for help with this.